Which woman would not fall in love with a man shaded his eyes, which with all his heart to give love and sacrifice themselves to protect us. Oh, this heart secured floating frivolous. But, alas, it was just an imaginary perfect man and can only be found in novels or films. Let hope not unrequited love, a dream to see her figure is also impossible. But let it be, as long as the flowers love it still blossom in our hearts and make the days more colorful.
LIKE A FIRST SIGHT LOVET
here was no inkling anything when they took the book from a shelf in a bookstore. "After reading its review in a magazine about two years ago, I immediately search for Twilight at the bookstore. Originally just for fun, to add a collection of readings. Uh, my heart was stuck in there, "said Adina Jewel twinkle (31), with a laugh. Who else could it be Edward Cullen's what makes Dinda cry baby.
As a fan of literature, Sari Kartikawati (34) enjoyed reading Pride and Prejudice, by Jane Austen's classic novel. Not unexpectedly, his heart lost in a romantic storyline and main character falls in love with the man, Mr. Darcy. "Anyone who does not try to fall in love on the figure of a real man with the setting of the 18th century romantic," explained the mother of two children.
Likewise with Yolanda Lucia (35) who like to watch series of themed suspense thrillers and crime investigation. Colleagues who have similar hobbies recommend Criminal Minds. Curious, he went straight to buy DVDs.
"Apparently, that makes interesting storyline is one of the FBI investigative team member, Dr. Spencer Reid, intelligent. He's really kind of guy I dream, "said Yolanda, who began watching this series since June 2009.
Depictions of characters the main character is almost flawless make their hearts pounding each read or watch a scene per scene. In fact, their hearts have been captivated since the first time the main character is displayed.
"It's like love at first sight, deh!," Said Dinda, who fell in love with Edward, the handsome vampire, since the first meeting scene between Bella and Edward in their school canteen. "The scene is very aptly describes Edward the cool, mysterious, and very handsome," said Dinda. "I began to wonder at Mr. Darcy from Jane Austen began to introduce the character of this novel the main character guy who originally described stiff and slightly fierce, "said Sari, who has dozens of times to reread Pride and Prejudice this.
Meanwhile, Yolanda need more time to recognize the figure of Spencer, before finally mooring at the detective's heart. "When I first watched, just to feel interested in it. But, after watching a few episodes, I fell in love with the personality, intelligence, and a unique sense of humor. I got to imagine, if it is true there are men like him that I know in the real world, I would not hesitate ask her to marry me, "said Yolanda, laughing.
BECAUSE YOU'RE SO PERFECT
People say, men handsome and tall, strapping was able to make a woman look. But, only the contents of the head and his heart who can afford to buy her love. "Where women are not proud coupled handsome man. But, so chatting is not disconnected, his personality is not attractive, and also empty the contents of his head, bye bye, "Dinda joke.
Not only in real life, even in the imaginary love of nature was very selective in choosing a place Dinda anchor of love. "Edward Cullen is portrayed as glamorous, but that's not what makes my heart melt," said the mother of two children. "How could I not fall in love, Edward is the kind of guy who loves sincere heart, full of sacrifice, and so protect the woman he loved, even though he must sacrifice his own feelings," he said, amazed.
Dinda love Edward more depth on the book New Moon when the apparent sincerity of love with Edward when he chose to leave because he felt Bella Bella will not have a life, if it continued with him. "Where there is, still, people are willing to lose his love? Just because he realized that he was not good for their partner, whereas he himself knows that he can not live without their partner, "said Dinda, who admitted in his film figures such as Edward was not her imagination when reading books.
As Dinda, Yolanda also felt the same feelings towards Spencer. "Ouch, Spencer was far from Hollywood-style portrayal of hero characters that are usually tall, strapping plus a six pack. Compared Hugh Jackman, very much! He's pretty cute, but most make it because he's attractive Spencer genius, have a good sense of humor, and very kind, "he said, which often imagine Spencer met in real life.Yolanda was fascinated by the genius of Spencer. "He was a fast reader with a strong memory and eidetic memory (the ability to remember objects, pictures, and sound in memory with high accuracy.)
He can read a sheet of paper in 3 seconds and immediately memorized, "said Yolanda, 2 who likes smart guy. Besides IQ above average, kindness Yolanda Spencer also made to its knees. How not, a figure that looks and genius nerds turned out to have concern for the extraordinary friends.
"For example, if there are friends who sadly, he was always there to entertain. He also remembers the birthday of his friends and often give a surprise gift. In fact, given the important dates not skill men, "he said.
Depiction of characters and physical perfection Mr. Darcy also makes Sari distraught. "Actually, physically he is not portrayed much for looking. Moreover, good-looking version of the 18th century with a handsome version is different now. But, Mr. Darcy described as a highly charismatic and unpretentious, though very rich. The uniqueness of its appeal is what make me fall in love, "he said.
Perfection male idol was recorded clearly in the brain and they live it wholeheartedly. How not to meet him the idol, all three are willing to repeatedly read a book as thick as 400 pages and dozens of episodes to watch DVDs. "Fair as a therapeutic longs, right. Is there any other way? "Dinda said, laughing.
"When I first watch, I watch every night after my children sleep. And it can be up at 3 in the morning! If it were so, certainly late in the office, "said Yolanda, cool. Most importantly, his hobby is watching the series suspense thriller channeled and a sense of longing in Spencer relieved.
Sari is also willing to spend some time each week to 'meet' Mr. Darcy. "Every weekend I always watch the re-DVD. And every newly completed office deadlines, at least once a month, I reread the novel, "explains fans of this classic literary novel.
Jealousy, BUT REALISTIC
Who is willing to see the man she loved making love with another woman? It was, there would be no woman who could hold jealous. Filled with envy, this pair of eyes was watching her win the heart of a man who has been our dream from head to toe.
'What the hell is he compared to my advantage? "As perfect as any woman, I think we must be able to find shortcomings, which make ourselves feel better than himself. Do they also jealous of the imaginary idol male lover?
Sari think Elizabeth Bennet is steadfast, cheerful, and smart is the right woman for Mr. Darcy, a rather stiff. "It's the beginning of their story is so complicated, but everyone could see that they were meant to unite," he said.
But, Yolanda had a different feeling. "Fortunately in Criminal Minds, Spencer, his status is still single. There is no wife or girlfriend, "Yolanda said, delighted. Even so, he was concerned that Spencer is difficult to find women who could be 'disconnected' with the thought that a bit complex and an unusual sense of humor. "Apparently, the woman who is best suited for him was that like me, deh. At least I like his sense of humor and can follow his thinking that is sometimes considered odd by most people, "said Yolanda.
Although no rival in the Criminal Minds, Yolanda Spencer must be willing to anchor his heart on another woman in real life. "A bit disappointed after knowing turned out to Matthew Gray Gubler, actor Spencer, already had a lover," said Yolanda, who is now difficult to separate between fictional characters and actors Spencer. The actor who is also a painter and was studying directing this film has a personal blog where he exhibited his drawings. "Artistic tastes a bit strange, but unique and interesting. In his blog, he likes to tell when to give a romantic surprise for her lover, "said Yolanda.
While Dinda, although aware of sturdy power of love Bella and Edward, for him there was one other female figure who is more worthy companion Edward. "It's beautiful Bella, but my taste is more suited to Edward," she said, laughing.
If they can find the kind of guy in love with an imaginary ideal, if they also find it in real love? "In this life, we can not get everything we want, 'right?" Said Yolanda. Dinda also feel, how to love and protect Edward to Bella, her husband's hard to find within ourselves. "In real life, no man is perfect," he said, realistic. He also assumed, the type of man like Edward would be difficult to find.
Sari also had a thought that is not much different. "That's hard, yes, if we constantly live in an imaginary world and expect something almost impossible," he complained. Although he was found all the dreams of a guy on the figure of Mr. Darcy, he still can 'step on the earth'. "Perfection is not only in dreams. Hence, novel or movie is always an extravaganza featuring figures, it is to satisfy our desire for the coveted figure, "he said, laughing.
Like the dew in the morning, the shadow figures it's just to give a drop of freshness at a time when the liver was barren. "But, still, really, in real life, my husband's champion," Dinda smile. He acknowledged, though not a romantic side of Edward, the husband has another way to protect her and their two daughters. "What is clear different ways. Kan no harm my vampires. For example, he willingly went to the office on a motorcycle so that I can drive, when there are matters outside the home. Once, during heavy rainfall, he still went on a motorcycle with my reason there was no vehicle will travel, "Dinda story, full of emotion.
The same is also felt Yolanda, although she realizes her husband did not have all the qualities that owned Spencer. "The way my husband thinks that is unique and somewhat bizarre sense of humor that sometimes reminds me of Spencer. But, my husband was still number one and Spencer is only part of the imagination alone, "he said.
Author: Eka Januwati
[From Femina 43 / 2010]
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